How To: Be a Great Bridesmaid | Becky’s Brides

Being asked to be a bridesmaid is truly an honor but it’s up to you if you’re going to be a great bridesmaid! One of your best friends in the world has asked you to stand by her side on the biggest day of her life and with that comes a lot of responsibility. Not only is it a financial commitment, but it’s also a big time commitment as well! Being a bridesmaid doesn’t mean you’ll just show up on the day and help the bride out. You’ll be invited to engagement parties, bridal teas, couples showers and let’s not forget the bachelorette trip! Be the best bridesmaid you can be by following these five easy tips!

• A great bridesmaid is supportive: Try your hardest to be present at all your friend’s events. We know it can add up, but she’s counting on you to be her cheerleader and her support system throughout this busy season of her life! Be there for her and do whatever you can to make her wedding day memorable and stress-free. After all, a truly great bridesmaid remembers this day is not about her.

• A great bridesmaid protects her bride from drama: Weddings bring out a lot of emotions! It’s a huge day for everyone involved, but your bride doesn’t need to be exposed to the stressful or not-so-good moments on her wedding day. Great bridesmaids know how to alleviate unwanted stress from her bride, ensuring that her day will be remembered as the best day ever!

•  A great bridesmaid is positive: We understand that wedding days are long, but great bridesmaids will never let it show when they are tired! Attitude plays a huge role is making sure the bride stays happy and in the moment on her big day.

• A great bridesmaid is on time: Punctuality is a key factor to having a successful wedding day! Play your part in the process by making sure that you are not the reason the day gets behind schedule.

•  A fabulous bridesmaid keeps the party going, no matter what:  Weddings are a celebration, but sometimes during the reception, the party begins to die before the bouquet is tossed. A great bridesmaid will pull people out onto the dance floor and have a blast!

What are some things your bridesmaids did that made them truly great bridesmaids? Share with us on Facebook or Instagram! Brides-to-be, make sure to share this article with your maids, too!